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A 16 Year Old Girl Was Brutally Raped, But Society and Media Mourn for the Rapists
It is fairly certain that when people around the world think of America, they imagine a highly civilized society in which every citizen, regardless of gender or race, is given the same rights and respect as equal members of society, and nothing like harsh Islamist culture under Taliban-like rule. Some Americans cited the horrendous treatment of women in some Arab and African nations dominated by strict Islamic and archaic notions of a woman’s role in society as why America is superior and justified in launching pre-emptive war in Afghanistan to save women. However, although Americans are not yet stoning women and young girls for being brutally raped, there is a segment of society that sympathizes with rapists and tarnishes the victim’s character for being the object of a vicious sexual assault.
When photos of the Steubenville rapists carrying an unconscious victim around and videos of them bragging about assaulting the young girl started making the rounds on the Internet, decent Americans were repulsed and rightly cried out for justice. As media attention grew, the rapist’s parents, football coaches, and local rape-advocates defended the young men and angrily decried the negative attention was ruining their lives and promising careers. However, there was little concern from the rape-gang’s advocates for the young girl who was brutalized and publicly shamed with photographs and video celebrations, or how her life was forever marred by criminals defended by their parents, coaches, and football boosters because in America’s highly developed society, victim-blaming is still accepted and encouraged; especially when rapists are athletes.
America holds a special place of honor for athletes, so much so that the Steubenville rape-advocates complained their “children’s” future dreams were being jeopardized. The football coaches went so far as to claim the outrage was a conspiracy to take down their successful football program, and not because the rapists carried out, and bragged about, sexual assault of the most heinous nature. On CNN, after reporting the guilty decision on Sunday, they could barely contain their sympathy and remorse that the judge’s verdict shattered the promising football dreams of two brutal rapists.
CNN’s Candy Crowley and Poppy Harlow were sensitized to the wrecked football careers of “two young men who had such promising young futures” and were “very good students,” but showed no sympathy for the victim. Prior to the trial’s beginning, Good Morning America emphasized the “shattered football futures” of the rapists by reporting “there was no jury” and that a lone judge would “decide the fates of Trent Mays and Ma’lik Richmond, who face incarceration in a detention center until their 21st birthdays and the almost-certain demise of their dreams of playing football.” Indeed, after the verdict was read, Richmond fell into his lawyer’s arms sobbing, “My life is over. No one is going to want me now,” and it informed that after being deified as a local football hero, his life was over and it is part of America’s reverence for sports figures regardless their criminal behaviors. However, the tragedy is not that two young men were “cheated” out of promising football careers because they committed rape, it is about the victim; and all women in America.
From the minute the savage photos and video recap of the assault began circulating, there was a steady chorus of rape-advocates blaming the victim because it was a young girl and it typifies America’s patriarchal society. Long before the Steubenville rape gang made the news, Republicans attempted to re-define sexual assault as legitimate rape, or pass legislation forcing women to undergo rape by medical instrument, or defame a Georgetown law student for advocating contraception coverage in health insurance plans. There is a patriarchal mindset in this country that automatically demeans women whether it is wage disparity, the right to vote, or ability to serve in the military alongside men. American society has been set up to keep women in their biblical roles as subservient and submissive; even to rape. When women do speak out against injustice, or report a criminal for brutalizing them, they become pariahs and targets for aspersion as a matter-of-course. After Fox News aired one of the rapist’s apologies and failed to redact the victim’s name, she began getting death threats for reporting the crime that led to her attacker’s convictions, and for ruining her assailants lives and promising football careers. It is the American version of stoning the rape victim, and it has been a decade’s long practice because in America, women are always guilty.
America’s culture, like Islamic culture, is still male-dominated based on religious dogmata dictating man’s superiority over women, and the vile treatment the young girl suffered at the hands of her abusers naturally warranted sympathy for the males brought low because the victim reported the crime. At the CPAC conference last Friday, and young white Southern male questioned by a woman said, “I didn’t know the legacy of the Republican Party included women correcting men in public,” and although pathetically disgusting, it highlights the second-class status women in America are given by this vile patriarchal society. Despite losing the 2012 election in part because they lost women’s vote, Republicans are still passing legislation in state after state giving supremacy over a woman’s body to politicians and religious fundamentalists steeped in the bible’s admonition to women to “be in subjection to a man;” even if they want to violate you with medical instruments, or “legitimately rape” you and force you to carry the bastard to term.
Although America has made infinitesimal progress in regards to women’s rights, women still earn less than a man for the same work, pay more for health insurance than a man, and needed a special law for funding parity for women’s athletics. Nothing comes easy, or naturally, to women in America because this society is steeped in archaic religious doctrine that women are second-class citizens, and little more than a man’s, any man’s, property to dominate, underpay, and rape. And if they dare complain, or report being assaulted, they are chastised, demeaned, and sent death threats, because in this country when a 16-year old girl is brutally raped by promising football players, society mourns their ruined careers and finds myriad reasons to blame the victim.
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Reynardine
Mar. 19th, 2013 at 10:12 am
I do not think that this has been a constant factor, but instead has been a resurgent one. Rape and then punishing the victim is backlash tactics. It has been prominent in repressive regimes from that of Pinochet to the Taliban, and if it is being promoted by any faction in this country *again*, I submit the situation bears watching
Virginia
Mar. 19th, 2013 at 10:18 am
At what point does this society that claims to care so much for “life begins at conception” start to actually care about human beings? When a person is seen as nothing more than a body,less than human, that bespeaks a societal ailment. When a victim is blamed for being drugged, raped and urinated on because her perpetrators were “promising” athletes, no human is safe. It says a whole town cares more about a football team’s chance at winning a title than they do a young girl who perhaps made poor decisions. I am sickened by this case, the media coverage and this culture of male domination that uses religion as a whipping tool against women and other minorities. Just a side note, these two individuals would have done more time for injuring an animal and the perpetrator’s “apology” that pictures shouldn’t have been taken and passed around, CNN somehow contrived that to be remorse? His response, “No one will want ME now?”, yes, evidently, he was choked up with remorse for his brutal, savage, animalistic behavior. NO, it was all about ME, ooooh, who will want ME now? What a guy, what a town, what a societal mindset. It is SICK, SICK, SICK.
Neil Allen
Mar. 19th, 2013 at 10:33 am
The Catholic church deserves HUGE blame for this, since they are the world leader in hiding & protecting the child rapist and humiliating the victim. In Steubenville alone, there were ELEVEN substantiated, accused pedophile priests, all involving children under 16, and some as young as 3 yrs old.
See www.bishop-accountability... with a pointer to the Diocese own web site.
If a BILLION people believe in protecting the pedophile, this is what happens.
djchefron(Moderator)
Mar. 19th, 2013 at 10:54 am
Stick around.Our resident pope, Peter would like a word about your blasphemy
rupert murderdock
Mar. 19th, 2013 at 12:31 pm
i was going to add the same thing. society is saying its ok for the catholic cults ruling men, have been shielded and protected by the catholic big cheeses, especially in LA. just pay off these men who have been raped with cash from the rich cabal that ‘church’ is…. and yet the ‘flock’ says its ok and still follow these pedophiles… same with penn st, and sandusky…
Paws
Mar. 19th, 2013 at 10:47 am
I can’t stop thinking about the injustice of what has happened to this girl. Yes, the rapists were eventually brought to some sort of justice, but look what she had to go through to get there. Look at what she is going through now. People saying the rapists were just kids who did what they did because they drank too much; I actually read a comment this morning elsewhere where what these rapists did was chalked up to “teenage hijinks.” The adults in that town who disparaged the girl and thought only of those “poor boys,” who didn’t look like “poor boys” in those pictures. They looked like predators. What of the adults who tried to cover it up, to just let it go? Those who said she was a liar and it was her fault because she drank too much and passed out.
We are in a country right now that thinks it is okay to continue to disparage and threaten victims of the crime of rape. I don’t know of many other crimes that are committed where the victim is BLAMED for it like they are if they are victims of rape.
When will that stop? Will it ever? How do we make it stop?
Fred
Mar. 19th, 2013 at 11:19 am
castration. pure and simple.
Reynardine
Mar. 19th, 2013 at 11:52 am
It doesn’t. Then they use bottles and screwdrivers.
Kirk
Mar. 19th, 2013 at 12:40 pm
as long as you’re talking “turn them into eunechs” castration, not just “no kids” castration. I say with a rusty saw blade and no anesthesia.
Brian Miller
Mar. 19th, 2013 at 10:50 am
This article begins with a statement about how our society is viewed as a paragon of freedom and excellence in the rest of the world. For a good portion of the latter half of the twentieth century that may have been a reasonable assessment, but it is certainly not true anymore, and hasn’t been for quite a while now. Other societies have advanced while we have either been mired in the same place, or regressed shamelessly. The horrible lessons that come from this tragic and appalling event reflect this smug, undeserved self-confidence about our moral superiority to all of the (sic) heathens out there. We have no right to feel that way.
nabsentia23
Mar. 19th, 2013 at 2:24 pm
Unfortunately, a lot of the moral superiority Americans may feel towards other countries comes not just from our parents, but from our schools. As a social science person, I don’t like the fact that I wasn’t taught a more accurate American History until I got to college.
America is no different than any other country in the world in that we have a dark past and don’t always learn from it. Unfortunately, when it came to education, American children were given a more idealistic picture. Instead of confronting our nation’s past, we choose to sweep it under the rug or sugar-coat it. So, it shouldn’t surprise us when we end up with politicians who like repeating our more sinister mistakes from the past.
I have often told conservatives that I’m a bigger patriot than they are because I still love my country despite the facts. Their patriotism is based on falsehoods, jingoism, and xenophobia.
My patriotism is based on a profound love of country. I’ve been fortunate to travel overseas and I feel most at home here. I fully accept America’s weaknesses as well as her strengths. There’s no such thing a perfect country folks. And America doesn’t excel at everything. And there’s nothing wrong with that.
Meanwhile, this rape case shows the world many of America’s weaknesses. But, the mere fact that this crime was brought to our attention, people are talking about it and reflecting on its societal impact let’s me know that America has a lot going for it. There are many countries in the world where this national conversation would have ended before it began. Not only have I visited such countries, but many of my coworkers come from these same places.
jenny
Mar. 19th, 2013 at 11:23 am
Just let me at those fellas for about 15 minutes please. What is wrong with people? You just can’t fix STUPID!!!!!
TigerLily
Mar. 19th, 2013 at 12:03 pm
CNN has gotten as bad as FOX. They defend rapists, loser fathers who don’t pay child support, mens’ violence against women. Although reincee preebust said the other day they’re going to invest 10 million dollars to send out their assistants and scientists? to study us dark skinned folks..you know latinos, blacks, Asians —non white folks. To wee what makes us tick so we can vote for them. Please proceed…THEY DIG AND KEEP DIGGING THEMSEVLES DEEPER..and I hope they continue. WE WILL NEVER AGAIN SEE A REPUBLICAN IN THE WHITE HOUSE. Never! These people are deranged and their followers even worse.
TigerLily
Mar. 19th, 2013 at 12:06 pm
WE TORTURED PEOPLE!!!!..We are now considered a barbaric people. We are no better than Sudam Hussein or any of those other barbaric leaders. Thank you Mr. Bush and GOP. YOU DID THAT TO AMERICA! YOU SHAMED OUR NAME AND OUR PEOPLE. But lets just keep crying and blaming Obama for apologizing for our barbaric actions. Never mentioning whose idea it was to begin with>>>>THE GOP LIKES TO TORTURE! And want it back–because it worked so well–in their demented heads.
Serena
Mar. 19th, 2013 at 1:14 pm
It’s extraordinary, how football can be put above basic human rights in this country.
Only in America…
nabsentia23
Mar. 19th, 2013 at 1:37 pm
Yes, the futures of these two young men are bleak, but they did it to themselves. And, to had insult to injury, they bragged about what they did to the rest of the world.
What disturbs me the most is that its clear that the environment these two football players lived in was totally messed up. This was seen as normal behavior. So much so nobody thought twice about putting all of this on the internet.
Meanwhile, the victim is blamed. Sure, the lives of these two boys are ruined, but what about the life of the victim? She wasn’t even conscious through the ordeal. I can’t even imagine the shock and horror she felt when she saw all of those pictures online. Why didn’t Candy Crowley talk about that?
It’s sad that these two guys will go through life being labeled as sex offenders, but guess what? That’s exactly what they did. Even if sex offender registries go away overnight; this fact doesn’t change. It’s probably a huge shock for them to see themselves in this way, but despite the distorted messages they got from their coaches, teammates, and compliant parents, this is exactly what they did. Just as a sportswriter for Yahoo so pointedly said, these guys now face a legal system that doesn’t give a damn about Steubenville high school football.
I seriously hope that this just isn’t a wake-up for the athletes, but to the entire town and the rest of the country. Part of the reason why this happened was because the perpetrators were led to believe that what they did was normal and acceptable. They had a community re-enforcing their bad behavior.
One of the pet peeves I have about my country, the United States, is while we exalt the individual; we ignore the community. We ignore the part in all individuals that longs for and needs to be part of a community regardless of how warped its norms may be. Our cultural ignorance of the fact that human beings are, indeed social beings, is why we continue to struggle with sexism, racism, and a whole slew of other “isms.” The rights of the individual should be protected, but we have to cognizant of the fact that when individuals are part of a larger community or society, things just aren’t the same.
And to Anonymous…job well done!
Mark Phillips
Mar. 19th, 2013 at 4:04 pm
America, where we love to blame the victim and coddle the criminal.
Tracy
Mar. 19th, 2013 at 6:01 pm
Cultures from around the world should not be called out in an article when proper research on them have not been done. What the media shows is just one side of the story. Calling Islamic Culture male dominated based on a ‘few’ very unreliable and more importantly biased sources can mar the content of an article. I suggest that proper research be done before adding any such information. The main idea of the article is very accurate though and these things should be taken into consideration by a society that most of the world looks up to.
Sherlock
Mar. 19th, 2013 at 7:41 pm
Too angry to add anything
Inez
Mar. 19th, 2013 at 9:01 pm
How would the parents of those boys feel if their sons were raped? We criticize the military for waterboarding, yet hundreds of women in the military are raped every month. Since when is a woman’s vagina community property to be be used at will? These two immature rapists can only blame themselves for this violent act….nobody else. Social media should be restricted from showing violence of ANY KIND! Seems it can be socially acceptable to brutilize anyone…girl on girl…girl on boy, boy on boy, man on whover happens to be in the way of flying fists
Mary
Mar. 20th, 2013 at 10:55 am
There are no illusions anymore the hate that the GEOPIGS feel toward women has become quite clear. Women are just here to take care of the hate filled ugly men.
Rose
Mar. 20th, 2013 at 3:55 pm
This is why I always say that women are still not equal to men. People just look at me like I am crazy when I say that I am a feminist. When a man does something horrible like cheat on a woman or rapes someone, he is excused because “men will be men, and he was provoked.” Ugh, this stuff makes my blood boil.