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Maryland Delegate Tries to Silence NFL Player’s Support of Gay Marriage
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Bigotry is ugly, no matter its source, and being a Democrat does not make you immune. We have all seen that from time to time. Maryland house of delegates member Emmett C. Burns, a Democrat, became upset when he learned that Ravens linebacker Brendon Ayanbedejo, a ten-year veteran and two-time pro-bowler, advocates marriage equality. Mr. Burns was not satisfied engaging in a public debate on the issue.
Instead, he took the extraordinary measure of trying to have Mr. Ayanbedejo silence by team ownership by appealing behind the scenes to the owner, Steven Biscotti. He demanded that Mr. Biscotti order his linebacker to “cease and desist” his “injurious actions.”
As a Delegate to the Maryland General Assembly and a Baltimore Ravens Footbal fan, I find it inconceivable that one of your players, Mr. Brendon Ayanbadejo would publicly endorse Same-Sex marriage, specifically as a Raven Football player. Many of my constituents and your football supporters are appalled and aghast that a member of the Ravens Football Team would step into this controversial divide and try to sway public opinion one way or the other.
Many of your fans are opposed to such a view and feel it has no place in a sport that is strictly for pride, entertainment and excitement,” Burns continued. “I believe Mr. Ayanbadejo should concentrate on football and steer clear of dividing the fan base.
I am requesting that you take the necessary action, as a National Football League Owner, to inhibit such expressions from your employees and that he be ordered to cease and desist such injurious actions. I know of no other NFL player who has done what Mr. Ayanbadejo is doing.
Clearly what is informing Mr. Burns’ opinion is not his Democratic ideology but his religion. Mr. Burns is not only a politician but a Baptist minister, an odd combination if ever there was one.
Mr. Ayanbadejo responded with a tweet: Football is just my job it’s not who I am. I am an American before anything. And just like every American I have the right to speak!!!”
And indeed he does. The Ravens agreed. Ravens President Dick Cass said on the Ravens’ website, “We support Brendon’s right to freedom of speech under the First Amendment,” and Ayanbadejo said Cass gave him a personal boost by telling him, “We’re not an organization that discrminates.”
But the true champion in all this is Minnesota punter Chris Kluwe, who slammed Mr. Burns on twitter and in an open letter published on Deadspin.
On Twitter, Mr. Kluwe said (read in reverse-order):
Chris Kluwe’s open letter is a must-read. He told Mr. Burns that marriage equality would not turn Burns into a “lustful cockmonster”:
If gay marriage becomes legal, are you worried that all of a sudden you’ll start thinking about penis? “Oh shit. Gay marriage just passed. Gotta get me some of that hot dong action!” Will all of your friends suddenly turn gay and refuse to come to your Sunday Ticket grill-outs? (Unlikely, since gay people enjoy watching football too.)
I can assure you that gay people getting married will have zero effect on your life. They won’t come into your house and steal your children. They won’t magically turn you into a lustful cockmonster. They won’t even overthrow the government in an orgy of hedonistic debauchery because all of a sudden they have the same legal rights as the other 90 percent of our population—rights like Social Security benefits, child care tax credits, Family and Medical Leave to take care of loved ones, and COBRA healthcare for spouses and children.
The Minnesota punter’s “P.S.” was memorable: “I’ve also been vocal as hell about the issue of gay marriage so you can take your ‘I know of no other NFL player who has done what Mr. Ayanbadejo is doing’ and shove it in your close-minded, totally lacking in empathy piehole and choke on it. Asshole.”
As Greg Rosenthal wrote on NFL.com‘s Around the League, “Burns’ letter comes across as a cynical, short-sighted plea for attention…This whole story leaves us a little speechless.”
Fortunately, neither Mr. Ayanbadejo nor Mr. Kluwe were left speechless. Fortunately, the Baltimore Ravens stood by their player. So did the NFL Players Association (NFLPA), reported the Baltimore Sun on Friday. The NFL has a conservative reputation, and a reputation for being homophobic. This might be changing. Ayanbadejo’s support from his teammates can be taken as evidence of that shift in thinking, and Chris Kluwe wrote a clean version of his Deadspin letter to be published in the St. Paul Pioneer Press and appeared on KARE-11, the Twin Cities’ NBC affiliate:
On Friday night he appeared on the Ed Show:
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This is a timely debate because as pointed out in the New York Times,
Minnesota and Maryland are among four states that will have same-sex marriage votes this November. In Maryland, Maine and Washington, the legalization of same-sex marriage will be on the ballot. In Minnesota, there will be a vote on an antigay marriage constitutional amendment that, if passed, would define marriage as a union between a man and a woman.
It is heartening in this age of oppression of freedom by religious conservatives, to see such an outpouring of support for those who champion our First Amendment rights. I have said here many times that Christian ideology is contrary to the principles of a modern liberal democracy, and nothing makes that point better than Mr. Burns’ anti-American actions.
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A Walkaway
Sep. 9th, 2012 at 9:18 am
(Sigh) I’m not surprised that the guy is a Democrat and a Baptist minister. The sad fact is that the Democrats are also targeted for steeplejacking, and someone like him is going to hold a higher allegiance to his church than to his country (or to his oath of office).
Nathan Miller Foster
Sep. 9th, 2012 at 10:33 am
In France, is it not true that their freedom of speech is tempered by a socially-conscious reprimand for those who, for example, openly deny the existence of the Holocaust? Just like we will be arrested for ‘free speeching’ the words ‘Fire!’ in a crowded theatre, that old rag, the same for those who espouse inequality between any humans for the sake of their natural existence.
What I’m saying is that, make it illegal to be a bigot in public. Maybe we should try that. Bigots don’t want freedom. If they’ll turn on someone just for being human, who’s to say they won’t turn on you next? They will. Hate is a parasite, and haters gonna hate, and we, the good, are gonna fight for the good.
Just how it is. God isn’t hate. By definition of omnipotence. Through a great chain of rationality and logic, one can prove that God cannot stand for ANY hate and still maintain the idea of any sort of beneficial afterlife.
So, again.
Haters gonna hate. Haters gonna ‘perish’ from the graces of benefits of society. There is a difference between jocularity and hate speech, and we must be cogent and lenient. But most humans, when not whipped in to a frenzy, do notice this difference between what may seem distasteful and what is outright debased and segregationist.
There is no good complaining amongst our liberal/progressive/decent conservative friends, for we already know. The only way to implement positive change in a society is through
I) Stable environments for the mass of humans in said society, that positive and humanist ethics may be taught at home and in our communities. This of course means economic and opportunity equality and respect of said stability.
II) Policies which are enforced by the good enforcers of good laws. Good laws can be hard to discern, but a law demanding freedom and strictly enforcing it seems to be on everyone’s lips, until it’s not the ‘freedom’ they want. Freedom IS equality IS balance IS necessary for a balanced society,…
Nathan Miller Foster
Sep. 9th, 2012 at 10:39 am
[cont.] – balanced society, and world.
III) Love yourself.
Shiva (Moderator)
Sep. 9th, 2012 at 12:01 pm
Legislators, whether state or federal are there to represent their constituents. Not their religion. Vote the bastird out
Karen
Sep. 9th, 2012 at 1:12 pm
First Amendment.
calma60
Sep. 9th, 2012 at 4:20 pm
That Maryland House delegate (SO sorry that he is a Democrat!) is misusing his office, writing on House letterhead to express his personal opinion. He has every right to his opinion, disagreeable to me as it is, but to use his position to protest it is wrong!
Gary Vaughn
Sep. 10th, 2012 at 6:03 am
He proves what an idiot he is by stating that the game is for pride and entertainment and excitement. It is sad though that he uses democrat as his party name, because we know they play for the love of the game and competition, plus the millions they earn helps LMAO.
D. W. Skinner
Sep. 11th, 2012 at 3:58 pm
Emmet needs to learn how to fly… with all the people telling him to take a flying one..