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Of Christofascism, Natalie Portman, and Liberty
more from Hrafnkell Haraldsson
I don’t generally go out of my way to defend celebrities. They are more than equipped to defend themselves. They have access to a pulpit most of us can only dream of. So when Mike Huckabee attacked Natalie Portman for “glamorizing out of wedlock births” I thought he was a jerk but I didn’t say anything.
I was wrong.
Huckabee is a symptom of part of a larger problem, the problem of Christofascism, and it is a problem liberals like me need to address, because in failing to defend Natalie Portman I failed to defend liberty, which is at the very heart of liberalism. Not the size of government or taxes – but liberty. And Mike Huckabee’s attack on Portman is an attack on that liberty, calling for what can only be described as a Christofascist response to a free society, to the fabric of a modern liberal democracy. What people like Huckabee call moral relativism or permissiveness the rest of us call liberty – the right to “life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness” as out Founders framed the argument.
Huckabee is free to find his own happiness; he fails to understand that people like Natalie Portman have the same right. Christofascists fall into the trap of thinking only they have a right to seek their bliss.
As MediaMatters reported, Huckabee
said that it’s “troubling” to see people like “Natalie Portman or some other Hollywood starlet who boasts of, ‘Hey look, you know, we’re having children, we’re not married, but we’re having these children, and they’re doing just fine.’” Huckabee added that “it’s unfortunate that we glorify and glamorize the idea of out of children wedlock.”
Appearing on the February 28 edition of Salem Radio’s The Michael Medved Show, Huckabee laid into Natlie Portman for daring to get pregnant without a husband:
MEDVED: Governor, I know you probably are out on book tour right now, you probably didn’t have a chance to watch the Academy Awards last night?
HUCKABEE: I’m very happy to say that I missed it because usually it’s about the most boring waste of several hours that I’ve ever experienced.
MEDVED: Well this was a – this was a low audience. However, there was – there was one moment where a very brilliant and admirable actress named Natalie Portman won Best Actress, and she won for a movie which I loathed called Black Swan. But in any event, she got up, she was very visibly pregnant, and it’s really it’s a problem because she’s about seven months pregnant, it’s her first pregnancy, and she and the baby’s father aren’t married, and before two billion people, Natalie Portman says, ‘Oh I want to thank my love and he’s given me the most wonderful gift.’ He didn’t give her the most wonderful gift, which would be a wedding ring! And it just seems to me that sending that kind of message is problematic.
HUCKABEE: You know Michael, one of the things that’s troubling is that people see a Natalie Portman or some other Hollywood starlet who boasts of, ‘Hey look, you know, we’re having children, we’re not married, but we’re having these children, and they’re doing just fine.’ But there aren’t really a lot of single moms out there who are making millions of dollars every year for being in a movie. And I think it gives a distorted image that yes, not everybody hires nannies, and caretakers, and nurses. Most single moms are very poor, uneducated, can’t get a job, and if it weren’t for government assistance, their kids would be starving to death and never have health care. And that’s the story that we’re not seeing, and it’s unfortunate that we glorify and glamorize the idea of out of children wedlock.
You know, right now, 75 percent of black kids in this country are born out of wedlock. 61 percent of Hispanic kids — across the board, 41 percent of all live births in America are out of wedlock births. And the cost of that is simply staggering.
MEDVED: It’s tremendously staggering.
Huckabee is now claiming he did not attack Natalie Portman or single mothers. And Bryan Fischer has gotten into the act as well, defending fellow bigot Mike Huckabee, who, as you might remember, earlier ran to Fischer to hold hands after being lambasted after an earlier episode of bigotry.
Fischer, who would like to see blasphemy laws reinstated said, “Huckabee is exactly right about Natalie Portman’s out-of-wedlock pregnancy.”
She made two poor life decisions: conceiving a child outside marriage, then celebrating it before the nation. Many young single women in America will be influenced by her example, but will not have the resources she does to address the problems they will create for themselves and their children.
Of course, like Huckabee, Fischer has the right to his morality. He has the right to believe that having children out of wedlock is a “poor life choice.” But he seems to feel that his sense of morality trumps all others.
The scourge of America right now is children growing up in single parent homes; they are six times more likely to wind up in poverty and several times more likely to wind up in jail.
I thought it was abortion. Huckabee says its abortion. Well, never mind. If you Google this, you will find claims of “twice more likely” all the way up to “twenty times more likely” so Fischer’s “six times more likely” seems to be in good company.
We can begin to change things by stopping welfare subsidies for illegitimate children. You get more of whatever you subsidize, and right now we give more money to single moms for every additional illegitimate child they bring into the world. Let’s urge them, instead of turning to taxpayers, to turn to their families, their church families, and private charities for help, just as we did from the founding of America until 1965.
Oh, so you don’t want to stop illegitimate children from being born (and I’m not talking about abortion here but contraception and sex ed) but you don’t want to pay for them after you’ve forced them to be born? I have an idea: We could refund Planned Parenthood and promote contraceptives, couldn’t we, Bryan? We could teach sex-ed, actual scientifically useful information rather than abstinence, which is proven ineffective, couldn’t we?
As pointed out in USA Today’s Faith & Reason by Cathy Grossman in relation to Mike Huckabee,
[he] doesn’t draw any connection between decimating the programs that offer family planning, pre-natal care, infant and mother nutrition and early childhood education and the poverty trap that captures so many young families, with or without wedlock.
No, he doesn’t. Nor does Fischer. But people like Huckabee and Fischer are all about extreme solutions. They don’t want scientific solutions. The Inquisition would work just fine. Bryan is fantasizing about the good old Puritan days, when women like Natalie Portman were put in stocks in the public square for their shame to be put on display:
The sign that America is recovering will be when illegitimacy is a scandal and a stigma once again, something to be ashamed of rather than parade before the public.
Because it’s okay to parade shame and bigotry in public.
And this is where the attack on liberty comes in. Fischer has the right to disapprove of Natalie Portman’s life choices. But he does not have the right to legislate his disapproval. His bigotry, born of a particular religious outlook, cannot be legislated into law. If he does not like it, he does not have to do it. But clearly, even “good Christian girls” become unwed mothers. And here is where Huckabee’s and Fischer’s hypocrisy are put on display.
Now keep in mind, neither Mike Huckabee nor Bryan Fischer have attacked Bristol Palin for the same offense. Huckabee even defended Bristol Palin. Keep in mind that Natalie Portman is a wealthy, successful, adult woman. Bristol Palin was an unemployed 17-year-old. Bristol Palin has become the poster child for abstinence for Christian conservatives, demanding huge fees for telling young women not to do what she did. Apparently, the fact that she can make a lucrative living off her own shame and appearing on Dancing with the Stars doesn’t glamorize out of wedlock sex.
But there’s a double standard, isn’t there? Here is what we were treated to with regards to Bristol’s pregnancy on FOX News, in an interview of Nancy Pfotenhauer, advisor to John McCain’s campaign, by Megyn Kelly:
I am proud that Bristol made the decision that she did facing this situation in life. And I am very proud that her parents responded with such love and support, and that she knew that there was they were the kind of parents who would respond that way. That’s nearly enough said. I mean, it’s a private personal matter.
Look at the language used: It’s a private thing, a personal matter, love and support. She argues that “common decency” should be shown by liberals and the family should be given some privacy.
None of this extends, of course, to shameful harlots like Natalie Portman. Natalie Portman should be in stocks. He probably fantasizes about them being stripped to the waist and flogged as well, like in the “good old days”. Bristol Palin, however, should be an icon and an inspiration.
It has been suggested that the real target of Mike Huckabee is not Natalie Portman but Bristol Palin, but I find this unconvincing and given his earlier defense of her he would still be a hypocrite – and a cowardly one at that – to condemn Natalie Portman but publicly defend Bristol Palin while attacking her in private or through secret codes.
As a final note I should mention that Natalie Portman is actually marrying the father of her unborn child in a few weeks. Bristol Palin, as far as anyone can tell, is still single, and still profiting handsomely from her out of wedlock birth rather than being shamed by it.
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Reynardine
Mar. 8th, 2011 at 8:42 am
Damn, I’m thinking of The Good Old Days, when we had prayers in school, good, Christan girls got married in the ninth grade, and when we counted backwards from the christening, we never had to get to the second hand.
Hrafnkell Haraldsson
Mar. 8th, 2011 at 10:01 am
You got it, Reynardine.
Shiva (Moderator)
Mar. 8th, 2011 at 9:16 am
I find it very telling that someone values a wedding ring over having a baby. 50% of the time in America that wedding ring will be tossed in the garbage at some point during the marriage. Hopefully the baby will grow up to be loved and to be productive. The person who holds the value of a wedding ring which is simply a physical demonstration of marriage over that of a baby simply proves to me that his religion is not one that I want to be part of.
Fake religion can find anything in the world it wants that is the scourge of the nation. On one hand Mike Huckabee makes a good point about the percentage of blacks and Hispanics who have children out of wedlock. however cutting off help to single mothers who are either in poverty or close to it punishes the baby of course. I rather doubt that the people who are having these babies are thinking in the back of their mind I can always go on welfare and everything will be fine
Why is it that to the GOP or Republican mindset the poor, the children they say they protect and the people with the least advantages always bear the brunt of blame? where is Mike Huckabee on the financial institutions that rip people off daily? Have you ever heard him mention them?
private charities have been a real buzzword of late. Turn to private charities for help not to the government. That’s an easy thing for someone like Muck Huckabee to say. Because he will not be giving to those charities. And for those charities to provide the amount of help that is required is absolutely impossible. You can turn to your church all right, and I seriously doubt you receive the help that you need to raise a child. let’s face it, Mike Huckabee does not want any part of babies being born that he doesn’t approve of especially to black people and Hispanics. He must be the compassionate Christian but I hear about
Hrafnkell Haraldsson
Mar. 8th, 2011 at 9:48 am
My father, a South Carolinian from Charleston, always said “Southern hospitality” only applies to family. In the same way, Christian brotherhood and charity only applies to your fellow Christians. They’re generally not much interested in dolling it out to other folks.
Scott Rose
Mar. 8th, 2011 at 11:57 am
You don’t suppose there’s any connection between 1) emphasizing “abstinence only” so-called “education” in schools and 2) decreasing availability of free and/or very low-cost contraception to high-school students and 3) an increased rate of out-of-wedlock births among poor people, do you? DUH! They must all have gotten pregnant through a retroactive causal agent involving Natalie Portman’s appearance at the Oscars.
Karen
Mar. 8th, 2011 at 9:30 am
Another great summary Hraf’.
Any thoughts on how much (if any) of Huckabee’s disapproval based on Natalie’s religious beliefs.
When I first read Huckabee’s nonsense, I immediately saw the rule change go into effect:
unwed mother = bad (unless its Bristol).
The hypocrisy sirens started wailing… :-)
Hrafnkell Haraldsson
Mar. 8th, 2011 at 9:47 am
My first thought was, there they go after the Jewish girl. Bristol, is of course, part of the NEW covenant and her mama is Esther reborn so she is sacrosanct. I wouldn’t at all be surprised if the religion of the respective mothers is involved.
People need to remember what Israel is about for these fundies. Israel is a means to an end, not an end in itself, as is Judaism. In the big Christian end-time scenario, all the Jews go away and everyone turns to “Christ” or dies. Antisemitism is never far beneath the surface.
Scott Rose
Mar. 8th, 2011 at 11:51 am
Huckabee owes all decent human beings an apology for his asinine comments. There is no situation in which it would be acceptable or appropriate for a man to criticize a woman publicly for being pregnant. It doesn’t matter whether the woman is married, has money, has a job or anything else. It is just never, ever appropriate for a man to criticize a woman publicly for being pregnant. If Huckabee looks like a jerk in this, it’s because he is in truth a jerk. His remarks actually were a non-sequitur to which the best response would be the upending of a bucket of wet plaster of Paris over his head. Happy International Women’s Day.
Anne
Mar. 8th, 2011 at 12:04 pm
Huckabee seems bent on showing us what is worst about him. This is the second time in 2 consecutive weeks that he said something asinine and ignorant. Anyone who would give Bristol Palin a pass while condemning other young women for the same thing is nothing but a blatant hypocrite. The only upside to his blatant displays of ignorance is that those of us who would never vote for him anyway have even more sound reasons to reject the prospect of a Huckabee presidency.
Sarah Jones
Mar. 8th, 2011 at 12:11 pm
Yes, Republicans are putting their money where their mouths are– killing Medicaid the country wide, and also, no help for single mothers — because they love the fetus but not the baby.
stumptownhero
Mar. 8th, 2011 at 12:16 pm
Hey Huck,
When did Sista Sara get preggers with Track and who is the father?
You should really know the answers before sharing the stage again with the GOP’s favorite MILF!
Hrafnkell Haraldsson
Mar. 8th, 2011 at 2:59 pm
I think I just threw up a little in my mouth…MILF eh? Otherwise, good point!
shamus
Mar. 8th, 2011 at 12:45 pm
And, let’s not forget that Brisket, while getting paid handsomely on the “abstinence” speaking circuit, is also on her third live-in boyfriend since last spring. Hypocritical? Nope—not when a good Christian/Republican girl with family values does it.
C.L.
Mar. 8th, 2011 at 2:06 pm
“The sign that America is recovering will be when illegitimacy is a scandal and a stigma once again, something to be ashamed of rather than parade before the public.”
I remember those “good old days” of scandal. The stigma and shame were piled on the heads of the illegitimate children — who had no part in the decision of how they were born into the world. Cruel and inhumane punishment by a censoring society dogged them their whole lives.
Anne
Mar. 8th, 2011 at 2:54 pm
Not only did innocent children needlessly suffer, but many women also did–thanks to the sexual double standard. I read author Theodore Dreiser’s “An American Tragedy” a long time ago, and it was based on a true story that took place from the years 1906 to 1908. It truly brought home how women feared the consequences of the “fall from grace” that an unwed pregnancy brought, and the extreme response from the protagonist to his girlfriend’s pregnancy.
Huckabee’s backwardness is constantly on display, and his remarks about Obama’s supposed “otherness,” along with his remarks about unwed pregnancies, are not the first time he has demonstrated his status as a neanderthal. He has also made remarks to the effect that gays are pedophiles. One sign that America is recovering will be when Huckabee and his ilk don’t hold any kind of political sway.
Hrafnkell Haraldsson
Mar. 8th, 2011 at 3:00 pm
He’s clearly playing to the narrow-minded base but what he doesn’t realize is that the base is not big enough to get him elected. They seem to think they can continually shrink down that tent and still be a viable political party. Maybe he misread 2010 and all that’s happened since.
Leah Burton
Mar. 8th, 2011 at 4:39 pm
Deja Vu all over again! Remember the BS that Vice President Dan Quayle launched over Candace Bergen’s Murphy Brown character getting pregnant and having the baby (god forbid) on a TV sitcom? These pious asshats are really something aren’t they…
Same game – different smell.
Rmuse
Mar. 8th, 2011 at 6:36 pm
Great article Hraf! You called it what it is. Defense of liberty. The Christofacists do not believe in liberty and attacking women is part of their mandate. I am glad you speak out on this subject and there really needs to be more before it is too late.
Today it’s Ms. Portman, then blasphemy laws. Pretty soon it will be Ten Commandment violations which require the death penalty. Seems like the further we progress, the meaner they get. You can count me in on to battle these bigots. I’ve seen their intentions firsthand and am not sitting and waiting for the Crusade to gain momentum. The scary part is these Christofacists are armed to the teeth and will be thrilled to become real “onward christian soldiers.”
Shiva (Moderator)
Mar. 8th, 2011 at 6:45 pm
add the Christofacists to the Gov.’s little merry band of revolutionaries that are answerable to no one except the Gov.if that law gets passed and you have a ready made armed and mounted inquisition
Aron Paulik
Mar. 10th, 2011 at 8:33 pm
We can debate about “pursuing happiness” Christofascism and modern liberal democracy, but have a look at the processes everywhere in the world: if you find all those divorced couples, non-married partners and single-parent families livable, balanced and peaceful, then I say OK, go ahead with the liberal flag.
But if not, we should measure, whether people know what exactly is good for them, or not. In my opinion, most of them have pale ideas.
I don’t need no ideology for this…
Shiva (Moderator)
Mar. 10th, 2011 at 8:38 pm
Not sure I understand. Are you saying that you do not think the divorced people, non married people and single parent families have “pale ideas”? or the people that think those things are ok have pale ideas?
Is it ok with you if people choose not to get married or to get divorced? Or is it wrong?
Aron Paulik
Mar. 11th, 2011 at 5:35 am
I’m saying that many people have pale ideas about their happiness. For example, smokers or junkies can feel happy on smoking and shooting, but i think we can agree that this is no good for them.
Therefore, many people are pursuing their happiness in ways that lead somewhere else, or just to false happiness. These people shouldn’ necessarily divorce if they would just be a bit more aware of theirselves.
It’s okay with me if people choose not to get married. But then they shouldn’t have children, because the best way for children to grow up is to grow up in a stable family. It’s not an accident that a baby can only born by a man and a woman, and I’m sure that baby needs both afterwards too.
Sometimes divorcing is the only way to peace, but nowadays in developed countries more than half of the marriages break up, and I’m sure it’s because they don’t feel the importancy of marrying the one they can insist with for a lifetime. Shortly, they lack common sense.
What would you say, why is population decreasing in several ‘enlightened’ societies?
Shiva (Moderator)
Mar. 11th, 2011 at 7:50 am
I guess I am totally the opposite although I do understand your point. The divorce rate in this country has hovered around 50% for quite some time. The biggest reasons given for divorces are usually cited as financial problems and infidelity. Although quite frankly I find that many of today’s people may or may not be prepared for a lifetime of marriage or even of living together.
I don’t understand what being married has to do with being a stable family. I understand that being married is traditional, but not being married doesn’t make to people any less stable as far as raising children. If one partner is going to leave, they will leave whether they are married or divorced.
I myself was married for 17 years( we didn’t have children ). And I have lived with a woman now for close to 18 years. I see no difference between being married and living together. They both yell at me.
I think the possibility exists that we are seeing a long-term change in the style of family that we are used to seeing. I am 60 and I know that people of my parents age would’ve stayed together almost year regardless of how they felt about each other simply for security. But I think that is slowly going away in a world where you can travel and be anywheres quickly. We live in a totally different world than our parents lived in. My parents had five kids, and it was common back then to have up to 10 children. In today’s world you see people who have two children as the norm. Both parents work, and neither really spends the amount of time with their kids that they should. I think under the circumstances to have more than two children would be absolutely wrong although it is still up to those people’s choices. It is harder to pay for more than two children these days. When I grew up, we grew all of our own food including beef, my mother made bread constantly and although you could play baseball with her porkchops the only thing that we had to buy from outside was toiletries and milk. it’s just absolutely not that way anymore and people cannot afford to have kids in such large numbers. And I think they are smart enough to know it. If you take a country such as Mexico where is absolutely normal for young family to have up to seven kids on a very small paycheck, that is not the norm here because I think people are smarter.
So I think that the population leveling off or even decreasing is just a normal situation.
I don’t see what a baby needing a man and a woman has to do with marriage however. I suppose it is the argument that people get married to have babies, but I am of the camp that believes people get married because they love each other and babies are a product of that. I could care less if two men or two women get married because in my life it will not affect me one bit. Just like it doesn’t affect me if people have children or not.
But as I said I do understand the points that you make and why you would make them. But I don’t think that we should ever judge people who have kids or don’t have kids, who get married or don’t get married or even who get divorced. People are going to have children if they are married or not and I don’t think they should be judged either
Aron Paulik
Mar. 12th, 2011 at 5:03 pm
Nicely said, I guess we do have common points. Just to clarify, i’m from Hungary, but marriages also end in a scary number here.
I think parents who don’t have more than 2 kids are smart OR prefer living standards. It’s okay to grant your children enough money, but in my country this leads to a massive reduction in population :( I’m neither judging them, just feel a little sorry for the society…