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University of North Carolina Threatens to Expel Rape Victim for Seeking Justice
Misogyny strikes again. North Carolina is a place where victims of rape are supposed to lie back, enjoy it and whatever you do don’t report it or talk about it.
Reporting rape at the University of North Carolina (UNC) is “discouraged” especially if it happens “too often.”
Melinda Manning, who is the former Assistant Dean of Students at UNC, filed a complaint alleging the University Counsel’s office complained that the number of sexual assault cases she compiled for 2010 was “too high.”
Three students and 1 former student joined in the complaint which reveals the sort of conduct that the GOP thrives on.
According to the Daily Tar Heel, Manning was made a victim of a hostile work environment in the dean of students office and higher administrators were less than receptive toward her effort to change the way the University handles sexual assault cases. In particular, the complaint points to Dean of Students Jonathan Sauls, Vice Chancellor for Student Affairs Winston Crisp and the Office of University Counsel.
The complaint outlines several indicators that UNC’s priorities entailed protecting rapists and keeping women in their place.
Issues raised in the complaint include:
The University Counsel’s office claimed Manning’s reports of sexual assault cases were “too high” before three cases were dropped without her knowledge.
When Sauls was hired in 2006, ”all language requiring sexual assault training for judicial boards disappeared.”
When Manning applied for the then vacant position, dean of student affairs, Crisp told her that he would ‘never hire her because she had a young child at home’ and what that could mean,”
In other words, the good ole boys don’t want no women shining a bright light on the systematic effort to silence rape victims, especially when that woman should be at home looking after her young child instead of causing trouble.
If you are a college student at UNC and a rape survivor, talking about it to the media can be seen as “disruptive and intimidating behavior”. Not that there is anything disruptive or intimidating about rape or the way UNC treats rape survivors who would rather report the crime, then simply lie back and enjoy being violated, then bake a cake for the rapist. This applies especially if you are one of the three students who joined Manning to take real action against UNC’s protect the rapist mentality.
Landen Gambill is one member of the group who filed the aforementioned claim. Ten days later, the graduate student attorney general warned her that she may have violated the School’s Honor code.
According to Jezebel,
“Since Landen knew she hadn’t done anything wrong — she hadn’t even (and still hasn’t) publicly identified her rapist, even though he lives across the street from her on campus — she ignored the warning and continued to tell her story.”
Her story reads like something from the fiction in a “time machine” when good girls didn’t get raped and the ones who did remained silent.
Landen decided to press charges against her rapist in the same Honor Court that considers her talking about being raped “intimidating and disruptive.” She told the Daily Tar Heel, this so called Honor Court treated her with hostility and blamed her for the rape.
“The woman student said to me, ‘Landen, as a woman, I know that if that had happened to me, I would’ve broken up with him the first time it happened. Will you explain to me why you didn’t?’” she said.
Gambill said the court used her history of clinical depression and her suicide attempt — which she said was a result of her abusive relationship — against her.
“They implied that I was emotionally unstable and couldn’t be telling the truth because I had attempted suicide,” she said.
There is something fundamentally wrong about an “honor court” that blames the victim for being raped than seeks to punish her again for taking other steps to seek something resembling justice.
This is really about silencing survivors by shaming them if they dare to think that justice or civil rights apply to them. Is it surprising when Congress is full of people who think of rape as just another method of conception or assert that there is something called “legitimate rape” vs. presumably some sort of “illegitimate rape?”
The war on women, our dignity and our voices continues and intensifies. As we saw in Steubenville, while the alleged gang rapists bragged about their “conquest” on twitter and complained about how their character and morality were questioned.
Under the rape culture that the GOP continues to cultivate the new normal is the old barbarity in which rape victims are shamed into silence. While rape is something we are supposed to just lie back and enjoy, talking about it, even without naming the rapist, is just too intimidating. In this culture, you’re supposed to bake a cake for your rapist, not report him for a crime.
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CynthiaR
Mar. 2nd, 2013 at 6:54 pm
This is unconscionable. I find it difficult this is even happening in the United States of America–and yet I find news item after news item that tells me I’d better believe it.
American women, wake up! What are ‘they’ doing to our/your rights in these states? If you live there, how can you live with this sort of attitude? We must must must vote these people out at every level and so that justice can be done.
503me
Mar. 3rd, 2013 at 2:30 pm
We the people need to find our voice and find it quick to stop this ‘american taliban’ in training. There are more woman voters than men and its time for us to show our strength. What happens to women in one state has repercussions on all women.
mjh
Mar. 2nd, 2013 at 6:58 pm
When Manning applied for the then vacant position, dean of student affairs, Crisp told her that he would ‘never hire her because she had a young child at home’ and what that could mean,”
In other words, the good ole boys don’t want no women shining a bright light on the systematic effort to silence rape victims, especially when that woman should be at home looking after her young child instead of causing trouble.
Hm — so, basically, this guy Crisp just admitted to discrimination in hiring in the workplace.
As UNC is a state institution, I think the NC State Attorney General should get involved . . .
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Shiva(Moderator)
Mar. 2nd, 2013 at 7:16 pm
Welcome to the world of pathetic religious theology. Do you think anyone ever would’ve said Moses raped them? Hell no. It was the good old boys club back then and once this pathetic religion crap gains more power than it will be the good old boys club once again
I’m sorry because I know there are religious people here and that’s fine. But personally, I get more sick of religion every single day. And I’m betting that a lot of people are going to feel the same way within the next 20 years
kat from ky
Mar. 2nd, 2013 at 10:31 pm
I came to the same conclusion about organized religions many years ago. It was a means of keeping the “peasants working for the “squire” because their “rewards” were not earthly but only came after death. Yeah okay?! I realized then that this was man-made dogma to keep the wealthy rich while the rest of us toiled til we dropped.( making them rich in the process) Keep your eyes heavenward and your back bent while they counted the coins and laughed at the sheep. It is even more so currently. Bullshit. We all must get off our knees.
503me
Mar. 3rd, 2013 at 2:32 pm
I haven’t believed in religion for a long time now, but that doesn’t mean I am not spiritual. That said, its time for all women (women voters outnumber men) to use their voice before this turns into the ‘american taliban’ Other countries now refer to these ‘people’ as the emerging american version of taliban. We have to find our voice and use it.
Paws
Mar. 2nd, 2013 at 7:32 pm
This is absolutely insidious. When will we stop blaming rape victims while treating their rapists with kid gloves?
ibwilliamsi
Mar. 2nd, 2013 at 11:03 pm
Just as soon as the MASSIVE majority of rapists are women.
Kevin C.
Mar. 3rd, 2013 at 12:07 am
When Male Family members go old school on rapists… When Wealthy Families of female students start withholding donations… When Alumni turn their backs till this changes. When the Greek Frat & Sorority system close Fraternities that harbor rapists or close ALL Greek life from a College or University that does the same. When the NCAA & Other college Sports folks say enough you want to protect rapists? don’t bother competition in anything as you will lose every game be ineligible to recruit & other steps to punish schools that allow rape on campus. When the USOC bans a competitor because they attend a pro rape school.
Reynardine
Mar. 2nd, 2013 at 8:40 pm
This is a deliberate reversion to the days when it wasn’t” real” rape unless a stranger, preferably not white, but if so, poor white trash, attacked and defiled a respectable, soberly dressed white woman “of previous chaste character”, who was encountered in a place and time where custom decreed she had a right to be. A girl raped by her date was deemed to have been a prick tease who was asking for it. So was any secretary who was dressed too becomingly while alone with her boss, or any stewardess whatever. And God help any victim who had ceased to be a virgin before marriage.
The threat of unredressed, unpunished rape and of being deemed “ejecta” (as rape victims were formally styled) is a terrible weapon to keep women and girls circumscribed, especially when coupled with that of the inescapable stigma of illegitimate birth. At least formerly, however, a father had no rights over his illegitimate child. In the world today’s misogynists are trying to create, even that small grace is gone.
charlie
Mar. 2nd, 2013 at 10:18 pm
Rudy Gonzales
Mar. 2nd, 2013 at 10:37 pm
Good ole boys(and girls), known as TEA-quest-traitors, don’t want no women shining a bright light on the systematic effort to silence rape victims, especially when that woman should be at home looking after her young child instead of causing trouble. An assault in any form is an assault! An assault, a rape, a verbal abuse is an assault, period! Violence in any form is still violence! Those voting against the V.A.W.A. act are perfect examples of the need for full funding of mental health programs across the nation. Fist step is to oust ALL TEA-Republican’s including those who used the (R) when they really are John Birchers(B-1), Birthers(B-2), Evangelicals(E) and Libertarians(L).
Kevin C.
Mar. 2nd, 2013 at 11:54 pm
Where are the men folk in these women’s lives? what kind of Father, Brother, Uncle, or Husband sit back & do nothing after their loved one is raped & then treated by a university they pay to not only teach but keep safe. I know if this was MY Daughter, Sister, Niece or wife I’d be in a butt kicking mood & demanding answers. I’d seek to destroy the university & those who allowed this to happen. But hey I’m a liberal male what do I know.
chefbob50
Mar. 3rd, 2013 at 12:16 am
I’ll bet if some of those victims had a gun and shot and killed a few of their attackers maybe the authorities would wake up and deal with the problem…
Reynardine
Mar. 3rd, 2013 at 3:00 pm
Why, no. Women who defend themselves with deadly force from abusers and rapists get convicted and sent to prison, where they get subjected to repeated body cavity searches, just to show them what they’re really good for. I thought you knew that.
Anne
Mar. 3rd, 2013 at 8:31 am
This kind of Dark Ages mindset in a place of higher learning is abhorrent and appalling.
This is particularly true because it both punishes rape victims and enables rapists to continue their criminal assaults on future victims. The people combatting this are to be commended and supported, particularly since they are up against an instition that is so unsympathetic toward rape victims. Unfortunately, this is not an isolated incident, especially since we have folks in this country on the far right attempting to return us to the bad old days when rape victims were victimized a second time when they were the ones put on trial in court, unlike other crime victims.
Daniel Berry, NYC
Mar. 3rd, 2013 at 9:32 am
While NC certainly has a history of “good ol’ boy networking,” UNC is and has long been a *very* progressive school in a progressive community–Chapel Hill. Something in this story doesn’t add up–or isn’t being reported.
Reynardine
Mar. 3rd, 2013 at 10:32 am
Ideological steeplejacking, for one. And I am quite old enough to remember when “liberal” men seldom held liberal..ideas towards women.
(Note: my cursor began to behave erratically).
montag
Mar. 3rd, 2013 at 12:42 pm
Forget about Tar Heels. How about calling UNC the Shit Heels?
Mary James
Mar. 3rd, 2013 at 12:46 pm
unc better prepare for the onslaught of anger and women just being tired of the “good old boy” rage against women…
Sherlock
Mar. 3rd, 2013 at 4:02 pm
I am not outraged. I am not surprised . I’m nothing. This is what I have come to expect.
This is RepublicanThink in action and it will get worse as their actions are exposed.
I cannot think of all the body parts I want to call these people.
Notre Dame personnel must have invested UNC.
knight4444
Mar. 4th, 2013 at 10:09 am
Welcome to ”republican world” am I surprised?? lol HELL NO!!! the United States has become a JOKE!!!!! and most of you know it!!!!! our conservative klan sponsored by multibillion dollar corporate america are pulling this country back to the 1700′s!!! this supposedly “GREAT NATION” loves to take a big noise but in all honesty “WE CAN’T EVEN HELP OURSELVES!!!!!” what blows my mind is ANY woman, black, hispanic, person with an elementary grade or higher education would EVER join the republican party is beyond me.