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Eva Seifert's avatar

He says he didn't do anything wrong, so I'm a bit confused. What responsibility should he take for behavior he says he didn't do? But I'm glad he did resign to spare the country, the state and the party from a godawful circus.

Kit Weintraub's avatar

I’m probably gonna get a lot of pushback from this. I know that women, myself included, have been victims of sexual abuse by men since the dawn of human civilization. The men have almost always gotten away with it. And most women don’t make these accusations lightly. But when the circumstances are “he said she said” at least at first, I guess I wonder why sexual assault is the only crime in which men are guilty unless proven innocent. I do think he should stop his run for Governor, because he’s under investigation for a serious crime, and he’s become a distraction. I think he should be investigated by the House regarding the crimes he’s been accused of and be allowed to defend himself before losing his seat. The pendulum has swung so far in favor of accusers these days that little proof is needed before publicly accusing someone of sexual assault. After all, this woman did stay as an employee and possibly in a relationship with him for several years, and then became involved with him again, apparently. So it’s not as cut and dried as it appears. It’s definitely an imbalance of power and he made, at the very least, a terrible error in judgment by getting involved with her for a multitude of reasons. I dunno, I still think we’re tarring and feathering the guy before he’s had a chance to defend himself. Y’all keep saying “alleged”, but the truth is that everyone has decided 💯 that he’s guilty of rape. I think the truth may be a little less black and white. Either way, he’s likely a scumbag for engaging in a relationship with a staffer. But that doesn’t mean he raped her. What if they were both completely shitfaced and had sex? Women want to be treated as equals, rightly so, but we want to be protected in a way that men are not when it comes to these situations. I happen to know a couple of men who were falsely accused of rape, and the only way they were able to prove it was because the women admitted they had lied for various reasons. Don’t equate this with women being encouraged to shut up for fear of wrecking some spoiled rich preppy guy’s future. There are very occasional circumstances where women do lie or mislead about particular accusations for whatever reason, Not often, but it happens. It’s almost considered blasphemous to say so. And the statistics that say that women rarely lie about sexual assault only count as a lie situations where the women admitted the lie or were somehow proven to be lying. It’s notoriously hard to prove you didn’t do something like a sexual assault, that the woman was a willing participant, or that it never happened. Those cases never are counted. I say let the guy be brought up on charges and have him go through a trial. It is, after all, a crime she’s accusing him of. If he’s found guilty he would obviously have to resign. Unless there’s a tremendous amount of evidence, or he admits that he did it, I’m not sure he should resign. In the meantime, if he’s found guilty loses his seat in the midterms that’s fair. Whatever happened, he definitely fell short of his oath of office and I actually wouldn’t vote for him given that he clearly, at the very least, made some terrible decisions.

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